Method #3: Change Without Changing Yourself

My next piece of advice has to do with the fine line between making yourself open and attractive to people, without changing your personality or natural habits. As I have stated, if you change yourself you not only jeopardize any relationship you form, but you also make things more difficult for yourself unnecessarily. However, this does not mean you cannot change certain things to create opportunities for yourself. Read More…

November 1, 2009  Tags: , , ,   Posted in: Methods  No Comments

Just My Luck?

So remember in my previous post when I was talking about how unlucky I am when it comes to relationships? Well, there was something I forgot to mention. Not only do I seem to lack any of the luck I usually have in my normal life when I am trying to court a girl, luck also seems to taunt me with the illusion of luck. Read More…

October 31, 2009  Tags: , , ,   Posted in: Find a Life Partner  One Comment

Missed Opportunities

It seems that, whenever I resolve to “make my move” is precisely when the opportunity fails to present itself. I consider myself to be a very lucky person. Because of this, it almost seems as if I have given up any luck I might have in relationships in order to be lucky in every other area of my life. Romance is the one part of my life where I cannot be sure that everything will simply “work itself out.” This is especially frustrating when, on the day I plan to ask my crush to have dinner with me, she is running late and doesn’t have a chance to talk. Read More…

October 30, 2009  Tags: , , , ,   Posted in: Find a Life Partner  No Comments

Story Time: Just a Friend

As I mentioned in the previous “Story Time” post, the chapters of Romeo And… alternate between anecdotes and explanations. Since I’m only posting the anecdotes, I’ve skipped from Chapter 1 to Chapter 3. Read More…

October 28, 2009  Tags: , , , ,   Posted in: Stories  One Comment

Infatuation Infidelity

FACT: You can’t cheat on someone you’re not actually dating.
FACT: You can’t cheat on someone by simply spending (casual/non-romantic) time with someone you are attracted to.
FACT: You cannot “lead someone on” when you barely even flirt with them.
PROBLEM: Regardless of these facts, I feel I am betraying someone if I have more than one crush. Read More…

October 25, 2009  Tags: , , ,   Posted in: Find a Life Partner  No Comments

What Now?

One of the problems I always have when I find myself attracted to a person is what to do about it. My first instinct is to let the person know how I feel, by whatever means necessary. However, mostly through trial and error, I have found this and many of the other techniques I’ve tried to be futile. Read More…

October 21, 2009  Tags: ,   Posted in: Find a Life Partner  2 Comments

Eleven Stages of Nice Guy

This is my final Nice Guy article, at least for a while. This is essentially a compilation of the bulk of my research. I knew that not all Nice Guys were the same, but I also knew that Nice Guys changed. This article completes the study by discussing the latter.

It has been really fulfilling for me to write about the Nice Guy problem. Perhaps I will finish the anthology I started when I was younger. In any case, I’m glad the information is out there now. If nothing else, I hope that at least one Nice Guy will read these and get something positive out of it.

September 23, 2008  Tags: , , ,   Posted in: Articles  No Comments

Six Rumors About Nice Guys

An article on the common misconceptions about Nice Guys and what they have in common.

September 15, 2008  Tags: , , ,   Posted in: Articles  No Comments

The Definition of Nice Guy

Are you unsure just what people mean when they talk about Nice Guys or why they finish last? Do you know about Nice Guys, but aren’t sure exactly how the title is given?

Even people who say they are familiar with “The Nice Guy Syndrome” don’t really know what a Nice Guy truly is. As an expert in the subject, I went ahead and wrote a brief 4-point definition.

September 8, 2008  Tags: , ,   Posted in: Articles  No Comments